From Conflict to Connection: Grand’s Story
- July 5, 2024
- •Homes
“Growing up, I wasn’t taught to talk it out—we fought it out,” Grand reflects. Throughout his life, he often clashed with others and struggled to resolve conflicts without using violence. This approach came to a head when a confrontation to protect his son turned physical, and Grand was incarcerated.
After his release, Grand moved into Project Renewal’s Villa Avenue residence in the Bronx. While resistant to engaging with Villa’s supportive services at first, an altercation with another tenant led to a pivotal moment. When talking to Program Director Jermaine Pope, Grand realized he needed better coping mechanisms to handle the unresolved anger he had been carrying. Jermaine has now become a confidant and source of support for Grand. “I think I’m super sensitive but a tough guy at the same time. I just didn’t know how to express myself,” Grand says. He began to embrace therapy, address his past, and adopt a healthier mentality.
Today, Grand resolves—rather than reacts to—disputes. He loves spending time helping others, and works alongside Jermaine to assist new residents as they move in. Grand has also saved lives, administering the overdose reversal medication Narcan five times.
Grand is rediscovering the activities that bring him joy, including running and cooking healthy meals. “I should say this more—I’m grateful,” Grand says. “This isn’t what I wanted, but it is what I needed.”
